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Why should I learn a new language when I already speak English?

Why should I learn a new language when I already speak English?

When I was lucky enough to be able to go abroad as a teenager, I remember hanging around British ex-pat holiday resorts with my mates.

You know the ones…

Everyone around me would eat British staples such as egg and chips, Shepherd’s pie and Full English Breakfasts whilst watching ‘Only Fools and Horses’ on repeat and getting sunburnt. 

They would all share stories about their families at home and they’d always speak in English.

Nostalgia is kicking in right now. Anyway…

But what do you think particularly struck me about this image I’ve created in your mind?

Well, here we were apparently in a foreign country and no-one was even beginning to explore the local culture.

Instead, we’d brought our own culture to someone else’s backyard.

Crucially for me, as I look back…we didn’t speak or try to speak even a few words of the language.

While this caught my attention, I wasn’t moved to start learning a new language myself until I went on a trip to Colombia back in 2016 with a mate.

As a single guy in his late 20s, he was naturally on Tinder and when he was lucky enough to get a match, he’d tell the woman that she should bring a friend with her so she could do a double-date..

This was all a great idea but there was one problem…

Hardly any of the women we met spoke English and, of course, neither of us spoke any Spanish. We realised that we needed to sort this out.

So my mate and I started classes in a library in Bogota with a teacher who was advertising his services at our hostel. This teacher was eccentric to say the least but that’s a story for another time. Anyway, we both began to learn the basics and, as I slowly began to communicate in Spanish, a real love of the language was born.

You can imagine how excited I was when I could actually speak to the women on our double dates.

The line we both memorised and practised constantly was ‘tus ojos son muy bonitas’ which translates to ‘you have beautiful eyes’.

Yes, we only learnt cheesy lines to help us speak to women 🙂

But during these dates I realised that I got a rush from actually being understood in another language. The look of ‘yes, I understand you, Alex.’ Even if, overall, my Spanish was shite.

I’ve continued learning Spanish ever since and I’ve managed to get myself up to an intermediate level. So I’m still not fluent but much better than when I started. I get by.

My language learning journey has continued. A couple of years ago, I spent 10 weeks living with a family in Mexico and I became close friends with the 83-year-old woman who was the head of the family.

Just like those slightly younger women in Colombia, she didn’t speak any English, which meant that it was a fantastic opportunity to use and improve my Spanish.

I was also able to watch telenovelas with her (think soap operas but somehow even more over-the-top). As ridiculous as many of these episodes were, they allowed me to better understand the culture.

No longer was I just a tourist trapped in an ex-pat bubble, I was actually having a cultural experience.

To find out more about my trip to Mexico, including an incident that had a big impact on my life, listen to this episode.

My desire to learn more about Latin American culture has just grown and grown since then. 

As it happens, there’s currently a Colombian cleaner in the apartment complex I live in who also doesn’t speak a word of English.

We have daily conversations and I’ve learnt a lot from her about what it’s like to live as an immigrant in the UK.

She also brought me back a large bag of Colombian coffee when she recently came back from a visit there which was really nice of her…

If you want to find out more about what it’s like to live in a new country when you don’t speak the language, listen to Valerio’s story in this episode.

Some of you might be thinking that it’d be difficult to have a conversation with someone in a foreign language if they didn’t know any English. Well, actually, in some ways, it makes things much easier.

When I’ve tried to practise my Spanish with speakers who do know some English, we often get into what I call “language fights”.

I want to practise my Spanish and they see an opportunity to practise their English with a foreigner. My worst area is listening so it’s difficult to improve when people reply in English.

This happened when I was in Mexico near Cancun where the Spanish speaker I was talking to was clearly able to tell from my accent and pasty white Irish skin that I wasn’t exactly a native Mexican. So he immediately switched to speaking English while I was talking to him, and I continued speaking in Spanish trying to get some practice in.

It can be quite a weird and awkward experience when that happens. But I imagine (hope) it’ll happen less and less as my Spanish improves.

Of course, I’m always happy to help others with their English but it’s better when we apportion times to speak ALL in English and then afterwards ALL in Spanish. That creates a win-win rather than a tit-for-tat language scrap.

If you’ve read any of my articles before, then it won’t surprise you to learn that I’ve had a read into some of the benefits of language learning.

Tim Ferriss has some great articles on this especially this one:

As well as broadening your social and cultural experience, learning a new language opens up new neural pathways in the brain that can slow down cognitive decline and related conditions such as Alzheimer’s and dementia.

It’s also a great way to improve your CV in a time when the world is becoming more globally interconnected than ever. 

Let’s also remember, Spanish is still one of the most widely spoken languages in the world. And there are actually more native speakers of Spanish than there are of English!

But, yes, English is now pretty much a global language in so many areas of life; it’s also worth saying that most people who speak English these days are actually non-native speakers, a Japanese businessman communicating with a Brazilian receptionist will more than likely be speaking to each other in English. How the world is changing…

So, in reality, when you’re an English speaker it’s not so much a question of needing to learn another language, it’s more a case of desiring to. 

I’ve always wanted to and I think a lot of other native English-speakers want to as well. We just need that extra motivation.

Some of you might be put off by the challenge of learning a new language if you’ve never done it before. But learning Spanish, although not easy, is by no means an impossible challenge.

I’d describe it as like learning to play guitar. You have to do slightly different things with your body and fingers (read tongue and vocal cords) to get the sound you need but once you’ve covered the basics, you’re able to do a lot with a little.

The rest is repetition and practice.

I’m not quite Jimi Hendrix-level yet, but I keep trying to improve and I love the challenge that learning a language provides.

Personally, I wouldn’t change my language-learning experiences for anything.

Read this article for more on the benefits of life-long learning.What benefits would learning a new language have for you? Leave a comment below.



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